Alice Marie Colombo

Alice Marie Colombo

April 15, 1937 – August 10, 2018

Alice Marie Colombo (known to most of her friends as Marie, to her children and grandchildren as Mama Bear) passed away peacefully in her sleep on the morning of August 10th, 2018 in her home in Traverse City, Michigan. She was 81. She had battled Parkinson’s disease for the better part of the last 10 years, and did so with as much poise as someone could. Her perpetual optimism for life allowed her to live in the moment, and see the bright side of everything, which she taught us all in life and death is the best way to live.

She was born Alice Marie Autio on April 15, 1937 in Stambaugh, Michigan to parents Wilbert Autio and Edith Lund Autio. She was an only child but had many cats and kittens, as well as close cousins with whom she grew up, playing together on her grandfather’s farm in Iron River, Michigan. Her time growing up in the upper peninsula of Michigan gave her a great appreciation for nature and living in the woods.

Marie graduated from Iron River High School in 1955 and attended college at Michigan State University. She graduated in 1959 with a Bachelor’s Degree in Science and pursued a career in Medical Technology. A few years after graduating, while working in Southeast Michigan, she met Lou Colombo through mutual friends, and they married (1963) and started a life together. They had three children, Kevin, Paula and Sharon, and settled soon after (1971) in Chelsea, Michigan, building a house just outside of town on a piece of property that allowed the entire family to appreciate nature.

Marie decided to stay home with her kids while they were little, and spent many days gardening in the summer, and in the winter, cross country skiing, baking and sewing (everything in sight, even the kids’ first swim suits!) and generally making their life comfortable, and always fun. Sharon remembers waking up from naps as a child to the sound of the sewing machine – that sound will always remind her of her mom. Keeping them all company through those years was their beloved black lab, Gus, as well as their sweet kitty cats, Muff and Bernard.

They made many lifelong friendships in Chelsea. Marie was always involved in the kids’ activities, as a room mother, or troop leader. They spent many years with their swim team, where Marie was involved in many aspects of the club, organizing, running and scoring many swim meets. She was friends with everyone – the parents, the coaches, and the kids. From Sharon: “She was always there when we swam fast or slow, supporting us and finding the fun in every event. Laughter was always the best medicine. She encouraged us, but never pushed, and taught us to make our own goals and work towards them on our own terms. In this regard, and so many others, she was the best mom.

As the kids grew up, Marie eventually returned to work part-time as a Medical Technologist at Foote Hospital in Jackson, Michigan. She enjoyed the friendships she formed there, as well as being back at work and using her degree.

In 1996, after the kids were grown, Lou and Marie divorced, but always remained friends. Marie retired to Northern Wisconsin and built a beautiful retreat in the woods. She formed many close friends in that community with whom she has always stayed connected. She enjoyed being close to her roots, just an hour or so from where she grew up. During these years, she returned to her love of painting, knitting, weaving and various other artistic endeavors. In her heart, Marie was an artist and craftswoman. She could knit or sew, literally anything, and did so with abandon. Her family and friends weathered many cold Midwestern winters wearing her creations (hats, sweaters, and many pairs of mittens). She also sold a lot of her art on consignment in various shops throughout Northern Michigan and Wisconsin over the years. Her kids will cherish many of these creations now, more than ever. During these years, Marie adopted two loving cats, Basil and Julius, who were her companions until just last year, when they preceded her across the rainbow bridge.

In 2007, Marie, Basil, and Julius decided to move back to Northern Michigan to be closer to Paula and her husband Curt, and their children, Drew and Reese. She settled once again, in the woods, in a lovely home she helped to design. She was once featured in the Cedar Valley Ridge News, her neighborhood newsletter. She enjoyed many years there being close to her grandsons, with whom she loved to watch and discuss college sports. She also spent time hiking and snowshoeing out her back door, as well as painting and knitting many works of art.

While Marie knew how to be happy just about anywhere (so long as she could visit with friends and family over coffee or a beer), she did do some traveling which she very much enjoyed. Of note, she twice visited Scandinavia, once with her cousin Elaine, and once with Paula and Kevin to revisit her ancestral home and visit some cousins. She traveled often with Kevin on adventures around the west and southwest, as well as to visit him at his home in Chicago. She also made annual and sometimes semi-annual trips to see Sharon on the West Coast in Northern California, and more recently, Portland, Oregon. She especially enjoyed her visits with the most recent additions to the family, Sharon and her husband Pete’s twin daughters, Greta and Ursula (her bear namesake), who both want to grow up to be artists like their grandma.

Marie will always be remembered as a bright, funny, no-nonsense mama bear who was a friend to all. She will be missed every day and held tightly in our hearts. Goodnight bear, we love you.

Marie was preceded in death by her mother Edith Lund Autio (1907 – 1976) and her father Wilbert Autio (1907 – 1962), as well as several cousins, aunts and uncles. She is survived by her son Kevin Colombo of Chicago, Illinois, her daughter Paula Colombo and son-in-law Curtis Cummins and their children Drew and Reese Cummins of Traverse City, Michigan, and her daughter Sharon Colombo and son-in-law Pete Dahlgren, and their daughters Greta and Ursula Dahlgren of Portland, Oregon. She is also survived by several cousins, nieces, nephews and many dear friends.

A private memorial service will be held at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to the charity of your choice. Please contribute your favorite memories of Marie in our guestbook if you’d like (below the image gallery).

 

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Debbie Holefka wrote on September 9, 2018:
I LOVED viewing the pictures you posted of Marie - one of my favorite Moms of one of my special families to have in our classroom. Marie was always helping in our classroom and school. Her children were certainly her priority. She possessed so many talents and will especially be remembered for her laugh. We had many candid discussions and I treasured her presence in our school. Bless all of you, Kevin, Paula, and Sharon - when you have a great Mom, her passing is a HUGE loss but those memories never go away and I know you're thankful for that.
Phyllis (Aho) Smith wrote on September 2, 2018:
I knew Marie slightly while a teen. Although in different schools and two years apart, we were both at Camp Shaw and later at Michigan State. We shared Finnish heritage and some years ago, while living in Frankfort, I gathered a group of Finns for lunch in Traverse City. ( I had learned she'd moved there.) I am sorry to hear that she had PD, which my husband also had. Your tribute is beautiful. She definitely was a very talented woman.
Laurel and Jan Deloria wrote on August 28, 2018:
Marie stayed with us during her last trip to the UP about 1 1/2 year ago. She was a ball of fire as usual. Funny, daring, ready for everything, perpetually moving, just an enjoyable guest, it was such a pleasure to have her with is for a few days. RIP Marie and heaven be prepared.
Betty Adams wrote on August 27, 2018:
Such a lovely tribute. I often remember skiing at Minocqua Winter Park and in the nearby woods. I see her smile in the pictures. Sorry to hear of your loss.
Laurie Von Hofe wrote on August 26, 2018:
I met Marie coaching Sharon, Paula and Kevin at Beach Middle School. We had remained friends throughout the years. I had the pleasure of seeing her at her home in Traverse City. She was very talented. So sorry for your loss Sharon, Paula and Kevin. It was wonderful tribute, thank you for sharing all of your pictures.
Joan Hauer wrote on August 24, 2018:
My sympathy to you, her cherished family. She so enjoyed your accomplishments and the lovely grandkids. I met her at 6AM swimming in Minocuqa, enjoyed her unique hospitality, her art work and interesting friends.
Diane Galaty wrote on August 24, 2018:
I was friends with Marie and Elaine here in Lac du Flambeau. We had so much fun together! Friday night fish fry's, Monday night dinners with the LdF Improvement Association, shopping and so much more. She was a special person in my life. Thank you Marie.
Earl Halvas wrote on August 22, 2018:
Sorry to say I lost contact with Marie some years ago, so I missed many wonderful times with her. Our teen years together were filled with fun and laughter. Glad that her family has so many fun, warm memories to cherish and help them heal from their loss.
Barb Seabury wrote on August 22, 2018:
Your memorial is lovely. The pictures of Marie and family during her life are beautiful and moving. She was a good friend and will be missed.
Shana Burke wrote on August 22, 2018:
I was a classmate of Kevin's and I remember Mrs. Colombo for being a room "Mom" and always at events for the family. Always kind, always extending....My heart goes out to the family and friends...may she rest in peace.
Larry Preiser wrote on August 22, 2018:
We are so very sorry to hear about your loss. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Ann Schaffner wrote on August 22, 2018:
What a beautiful, loving tribute to a beautiful , loving and fun lady. Kevin, Paula, Sharon, and families, my sincere condolences to you all.
Phyllis Muncer wrote on August 20, 2018:
I remember Marie with fondness. We were both Brownie leaders & involved in school & community activities together. We spoke often of our Finnish heritage. Marie was fun and active and joyous. Memories of her are not forgotten. My sincere condolences to Marie's children.
Jane Johnson wrote on August 19, 2018:
I was always in awe of Marie’s artistic ability. What a creative person she was! The homes she built in Wisconsin and Travere City were wonderfully unique. She could sew, knit, create a garden, paint, do needle point, etc. I always enjoyed being with Marie. She was funny and had an interesting way of looking at things. The last time I saw Marie was when her friends from the blood bank at Foote Hospital (Cheryl, Mindy, Carolyn and Judy) brought her up to our cottage on Sugar Bush Lane for a “sleep over.” Marie is one of those people I will never forget.
Cheryl Eggleston wrote on August 17, 2018:
Marie and I worked together for many years in the Blood Bank at Foote Hospital. She was a great friend and we had many good times together at the hospital. She will be missed by all.
Carolyn Henriksen Dunlap wrote on August 16, 2018:
So sorry to hear about Marie. I have so many stories about things we did that I cannot put them into words. We used to laugh, laugh and laugh some more. Days at Camp Shaw and at Nesbit Lake come to mind. We did some very crazy things ! I will certainly miss talking to her but glad we had time together on her last visit to the UP!
Carrine Pomaranski wrote on August 15, 2018:
What a beautiful life story.... We are so sorry for your loss. Please let the wonderful memories you have created bring you comfort. Sending our love. Warmly, Mark, Carrine, Cora, Ava and Fynn
Cindy Hammerschmidt wrote on August 15, 2018:
Sharon; This is a beautiful rememberence your wonderful Mother. She was such a good friend to me over all the years of our shared raising such great children. I will continue to think of all of you and your Mother . Love and prayers to you and your family. Cindy and Jerry Hammerschmidt
Terri Hanson wrote on August 14, 2018:
I had the pleasure of spending some quality time with Marie in the past year. I always enjoyed her stories and helping her plan encounters with "Buddy". I will miss her, she made me smile and laugh.
Harriet Wall wrote on August 14, 2018:
I feel so fortunate that I was able to get to know Marie and have her as a friend after she moved to Traverse City. I always will treasure my memories of her wonderful sense of humor, and her enjoyment of a good time. Her artistic talent seen through her sewing and knitting, and especially her keen sense of color was impressive. My condolences to Marie's family on the loss of such a remarkable woman, mother, and friend.
Mary Watson clark wrote on August 14, 2018:
I met Marie at the civic center pool where she would come to swim laps Loved her sense of humor She will be missed
Minta Hissong wrote on August 14, 2018:
Sharon and family, I’m so very sorry to read the news of your mom’s passing. I have very fond memories of her and she was always a lot of fun. I will also remember her every Christmas when I hang by the fire all the monogrammed stockings she knit for Dave and my kids. I wanted theirs to match mine and they are perfect. I smile thinking about her. Our sincere condolences. Hugs.
Kathy Cross wrote on August 13, 2018:
My dear longtime friend shared so many happy moments with me. I knew not call during MSU or Pistons ballgames. She was so fun and full of vitality. You never knew what was coming out of her mouth. My personal favorite was when I said, “Well, Marie you are 75 right?” to which she replied, “No, I’m 80 - can you F—-ing believe it?” We burst into laughter!!! Marie, you were loved, appreciated and cherished and that will not change, my friend.
Martha Branch wrote on August 13, 2018:
Thank you for sharing so many lovely photos and memories of your mother. You are lucky to have so many beautiful ways to remember her. ❤️Martha